PROBLEMS ARE THE PARTS OF YOUR LIFE!

 

Problems are the parts of your life. Without problems, your life is not possible. As long as you live in this world, your problems also stay with you. No problem, no life. This is the reality of life.

There is nobody in this entire world that has no problem at all.

Everybody has his or her own problems. Some problems are small; and some problems are big and challenging. They are always in the state of rise and fall; fall and rise and vice versa. But, with your positivity, you can solve the problems of your life. Your positivity will give you the right way to find out the right solutions of your problems. With your positivity, you not only face your problems boldly and confidently, but you also solve your problems easily and smoothly. And the more you solve the problems of your life, the more you become experienced and matured in your life. You will become like the problem solving guidebook of your own problems.

 

What are the problems in your life?

 

• Family problems

(Bad relationships with your spouse/children/parents/relatives) • Health problems

(Suffering from weakness/sickness/disease)

 

• Economic problems

(Lack of money/ lack of earning source)

• Career problems (Lack of good or promising work/job)

 

Who is responsible for the problems of your life?

 

• Your bad deeds (Bad karmas)

• Bad Time

• Bad condition/ situation/circumstance

• Bad environment

• Bad habits

• Bad companies/ associations

 

Who will solve the problems in your life?

 

Nobody can solve the problems of your life. Only you can solve the problems of your life.

For instance, if you have a relationship issue, then you have to approach yourself initially to sort it out; if you have a health problem, then you have to go to the best and specialist doctor for your treatment; if you have a financial problem, then you have to manage your financial loss and search for the alternative source of income; and if you have a career problem, then you have to look for a better prospect and opportunities, rather than sitting idle and grumbling about your ill fate.

 

Is your problem permanent?

 

No. Your problem is not permanent. Nothing is permanent in this world. In fact, everything is temporary in this world and so as your problem.

 

Can you run away from the problems of your life?

 

No. You can’t run away from the problems of your life. Because, the more you try to run away from the problems of your life, the more problems will start hunting you. Hence, only by facing the problems of your life, you can solve the problems of your life.

 

“Renunciation of the objects of sense gratification; absence of false ego, the perception of the evil of birth, death, old age and disease ;…(- all these I declare to be knowledge).”

                                                                           ---Bhagwad Gita

 

The above verse from the Bhagwad Gita enlightens you:

 

• Give up the things which disturb your mind, body and soul.

• Give up the things which lead your life to the door of downfall and failure.

• Give up your false ego.

• Give up the thoughts about your birth, death, old age and disease.

• Since, you are born in this world, hence your death is inevitable, and nobody can alter it.

• Since, you are immortal in this world; you will face the stage of your old age and you will also suffer from disease.

• This is the real knowledge of your life.

 

 

 

                                            STAGES OF LIFE:

 

                                                       BIRTH

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CHILDHOOD

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YOUNG AGE

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OLD AGE (Suffer disease)

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                                                                DEATH

 

Anecdote:

 

Once, there lived a man who was always troubled by one or other problem and was not happy with his life.

One day, he got to know that a saint with his convoy has come to the city. The man decided to go to meet the saint. In the evening, he went to the place of the saint and after waiting for a while, he got to meet the saint.

The man said, “Baba, I am very unhappy with my life.  I am surrounding by the problems all the time….work tension, health problem, problems at home….Please tell me a way so that my all problems will end and I can live a peaceful and happy life.”

The saint smiled and said, “Son, I will give you a solution tomorrow morning, but meanwhile can you do me a small job of mine?”

“Okay, Baba,” the man agreed, happily.

The saint continued, “There are hundred camels in our convoy. I want that tonight, you take care of them. When all the hundred camels sit down, then you too go to sleep.”

Saying this, the saint went to his tent and the man went to look after the hundred camels for the night.

Next morning, the saint went to the man and asked, “Son, did you have a good sleep last night?”

The man became sad and replied, “Baba, I couldn’t even sleep for a moment. I tried a lot, but I couldn’t get all the camels to sit together at a time. Some sat down themselves, but some couldn’t sit even if I tried and if one sit the other gets up on the other side. ”

The saint smiled and said, “If I am not wrong, this is what happened last night?

“There were many camels who sat themselves at night….

“Many others sat because of your efforts….

“Others didn’t sit even after trying to make them sit…..and then later you found that some of them sat themselves with time….”

The man replied, “Yes….Yes!!”

The saint continued, “Now, do you understand something? Problems in our life are just like that…..

1. Some will solve themselves.

2. Some will be solved with your efforts.

3. Some will not be solved even with efforts….leave these problems on time…..They will solve at the right time by themselves….

“In the same way if you solve a problem, then you will see another problem standing there. It’s life. Problems are parts of your life, sometimes it ’s less and sometimes there are too many problems.

“Happiness and misery are only confusion….Problems are the parts of life, but this doesn’t mean that you keep thinking about them….You keep them aside and keep moving forward….learn to grow towards the purpose of life….”

The saint concluded.

 

What is the moral of this story?

 

• Problems are the parts of your life.

• If one problem will settle down, then another problem will arise, and so on and so forth.

• Don’t worry about your problems.

• Keep trying to solve your problems.

• Don’t entangle yourself in the midst of problems.

• Grow yourself every day.

• Keep moving ahead.

• Don’t forget the purpose of your life.

 

How your positivity help you to solve your problems?

 

• Your positivity makes you cool and calm to solve the problems of your life.

• It helps you to balance your mental state.

• It helps you to use your intellect to make the right decision.

• It helps you to use your knowledge, wisdom, information and experiences to solve your problem.

• It helps you to go to the root causes of your problems.

• It helps you to understand your problems.

• It helps you to approach to your problems.

 

“Life is a series of problem-solving opportunities. The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you depending on how you respond to them.”                                    

                                                                ---Rick Warren