How to Develop Pleasing Personality?

Most of us want to possess pleasing personality. Here are the lips to acquire this personal trait:

1. Accept a person as he is and where he is. This attitude takes away hostility in human relationship. It is not possible to behave pleasantly with one whom you hate. When you accept a person as he is, you can relax and feel free with the concerned person. Then he too will be happy and friendly with you.

2. Be outgoing. Maturity provides you with this important quality. You must be other person-centered rather than self-centered. Too much selfishness takes away the friendly nature to go out of the way to help a person in need.

3. Be a good listener and be interested to listen with patience and sympathy for the other person.

4. Look for the good in everyone. Think and live positively instead of negatively.

5. Concentration on other person’s achievement. Do remember that there is good in everyone and sincerely look for it.

6. Be a person with original ideas and thoughts of peace which help you to possess pleasing personality.

7. Wear a smile. This is one of the features of good personality. Smile at everyone. There is no better way to spread sunshine at all times.

8. Be enthusiastic. This is the one special quality that goes along with pleasing personality.

9. Always keep an image of yourself having the qualities of a pleasing person like outgoing nature, ever available tendency to help and a smile to great everyone you meet.

*Source: Wisdom

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